Some Thoughts on Women in the Media

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Katie Couric may not be everyone’s favorite broadcaster, but she has always struck me as a dedicated reporter, even when she was covering “fluffier” news on the TODAY show. Now she’s reporting from Iraq, making it difficult for people to accuse her of only covering the softer issues in life. Instead, critics are saying she went abroad to increase her ratings. What do you think?

In his Morning Meeting column, Al Tompkins mentioned “the whole Katie Couric thing,” saying, “I often wonder why news organizations are so harsh in their treatment of Couric. Finally, a female has made the unprecedented move of becoming a nightly news anchor, and rather than praise her, the media have ridiculed her.” Some people responded to Al’s column, sharing similar sentiments.

I respect Couric for not lashing out against the news organizations that have treated her harshly, and I hope she will hold onto the position of nightly news anchor. We need women to continue to thrive in journalism and to not just hold reporting positions, but editorial and leadership positions as well. I couldn’t believe how many cover letters I addressed to male editors when sending out job applications last winter. Of the 75 applications I sent, I would say about an eighth were to female editors. Look at the masthead in newspapers. It’s not often you see a woman as the executive editor, vice president, or publisher of a paper.

This discussion reminds me of a new book out called “Selling Anxiety: How the News Media Scare Women,” written by a Boston University professor and media critic, Caryl Rivers. In her book, Rivers talks about how pop sociology distorts women’s view of their role in the working world. There’s an assumption, Rivers says, that working women have horrible marriages, bad sex, and children who misbehave, all suggesting that women should hang up their phones in the office and instead pick up the slack at home. Isn’t it possible to be a working mother and wife, though? Julia Wallace of the Atlanta Journal Constitution proves that it is.

Here are some other good reads:

“Pregnant Pause: What’s the real story behind Elizabeth Vargus’ departure from World News Tonight?”: Slate

“Alas, poor Couric”: New York Magazine

“Exit Strategies for television news”: The Boston Globe

What do you think about the role of female reporters? Do you think they’re at a disadvantage or are people just making a big deal out of nothing?

Happiness in Life’s Little Things

A few days before I graduated from Providence College, my friend Rebecca gave me a book called, “14,000 Things to Be Happy about.” The book has been sitting on my desk for the past couple months, but I haven’t cracked it open until now. Looking at the title of the book every day, though, has reminded me that the greatest things in life, the things that stir pure happiness, are often small and free of charge. I’m reminded of a Samuel Johnson quote: “It is by studying little things that we attain the great art of having as little misery and as much happiness as possible.” Thanks for the wise words, Sam.

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Here are some of my favorite examples from the “14,000 Things to Be Happy About” book:

Furry booties that warm your feet like little ovens, having the ducks at the zoo eat the bread you’ve thrown to them, red-barn red, the Boston Children’s Museum, writing your memoirs, blue eyes, the exciting moment when you first look out the window to see what the snow has done, a pet stuffed frog, listening to someone describe something that makes them happy, sharing popcorn, coffee-flavored frozen yogurt, dancin’ in the moonlight, a photo collage, responding to challenge, David Letterman, silver beads, resting under a favorite tree, editing a magazine or article, keeping notes on life, pasta salad, free kittens, curling up, a rerun you haven’t seen since childhood, poetry in everything, butterflies migrating, two people listening to each other, cherry tomatoes, children just learning to talk, church bells, the ability to start over, July: National Ice Cream Month, lengthened life spans, diamond stars, plain cottage cheese, believing in yourself when no one else will, a warm May day, getting your point across, feeling the damp freshness of a Cape cod morning cool on your face, thin-lined (narrow) writing paper, the morning newspaper at the door, stopping being a perfectionist, notebooks with blank pages to be filled, girl reporters, alma maters, rewarding yourself, hours of climbing trees, carrying home 10 books from the library, sitting on a porch or bench reading The New York Times, zithers, writing long messages to out-of-touch friends, not having to pick up wet towels, friendship, the patter of rain, an underground railroad, cows with bells (or cowbells!), love of books, the splendor of fall, journalism, missing someone but knowing you’ll be together soon, the length of icicles, Italian menus, dining by the window, containers of homemade lemonade, being free-spirited, stone bridges, a painter’s workshop on Block Island, Rhode Island, sharing a book you read with someone, going roller skating on a Saturday, inheriting an island (does that really happen?!), Italian ice cream spoons, reading the newspaper, lunch boxes, Greenwich, Connecticut: “The Gateway to New England,” great elm trees, the song “If I Loved You,” from the movie and the play Carousel, glass beads, Central Park in winter, Pizza Hut restaurants, finding a newspaper someone left on the train when you were too cheap to buy one, free stuff from hotels, robins.

What makes you happy?

Having a Little More Fun on the Street

A friend from Poynter today said the list of books I included a few posts back was good, but serious. Every once in a while, I should include a book for the fun of it, he said. The book he suggested is called, “The Yiddish Policemen’s Union,” a mystery novel with lyrical writing. He ended his e-mail to me by saying, “Have fun.”

So that got me thinking … maybe I need to have more fun with this blog. The past month or so has been an experiment. I started this blog and have enjoyed regularly writing and getting feedback from others, but I want to make sure “Word on the Street” is as enjoyable for readers as it has been for me. I tried seeing which posts readers liked best: The post about Martha, the crazy pool lady, and the one about emoticons seemed to generate the most comments.
So, let me know. What would you like to see more of on this blog? Videos, more photos, a broader range of story topics, shorter posts? Give me some ideas!

‘I May Take a Holiday in Spain’

Flamenco dancing at Cerviche Tapas Bar and Restaurant down here in St. Pete is good, but it doesn’t compare to the dancing in Sevilla, Spain. I studied in Sevilla for seven weeks during the summer between my junior and senior years and dream of someday going back to see my host family, revisit the city’s historic sites and speak the language.

My love for the city was rekindled this weekend when I read a New York Times travel piece that describes Sevilla as “easily Spain’s most flamboyant city.” The written story is accompanied by photos that tell a tale of their own, capturing images that resonate with my memories of the place.

I lived in a barrio called Triana, which was right next to El Rio Guadalquivir and el torro del oro, a “tower of gold” built by the Moors in the 12th century (see photo below). One of the great things about living in Triana, and in Sevilla in general, was that everyone spoke Spanish. My host mother, Pepa, and her husband, Paco, didn’t know any English, so I had no choice but to speak the language.

Like many Spaniards, Pepa and Paco started their night on the weekends at midnight and wouldn’t come home until about 3 a.m. If I didn’t go out, Pepa would ask me, “Que pasa? Estas enferma? Por que no estas afuera con sus amigos?” (What’s happening? Are you sick? Why aren’t you going out with your friends?!) I’d try telling her I was just tired — not sick — but I’m not so sure she believed me. She always had enough energy because she routinely took a two-hour siesta every day. I think we should start a “bring the siesta to America” movement. Everyone always seems to be in a huge rush, over-tired, stressed, etc. here. Why not break during the day — close our shops, stop working — and just relax for a couple hours? Seems like a great idea to me…

I could ramble on and on about Seville, but I’ll let the Times article and the links to the photos below tell you the story of this city. Here’s a song I like by the Counting Crows that reminds me of Spain. (The music video’s cheesy, but the song is good.)

This Times piece about frugally traveling cross-country is also worth a look. How cool would it be to travel across the country with a friend and write about it? This is definitely on my list of things to do before I die.

Where do you want to travel/what city do you want to write about?

Photos I took:

Flamenco dancers working up a sweat

Bullfight

Torre Del Oro

La Catedral

Me and my super cool Spanish professor, Jose

El Bidet, just for kicks

Other Spanish cities I visited:

Cordoba – Inside La Mezquita (the mosque)

Fountain in Granada’s Alhambra

Bridge in Ronda

Rolling hills in Ronda

Better Not Wear Saggy Jeans — You Might Get Arrested.

As I drove home from work Friday, I spotted a group of a dozen or so boys who were all wearing skin-tight, white jeans. I wish I had taken a photo of them crossing the street in front of my car, strutting along the roadway like the Beatles, their heads down, their facial expressions serious. I’m used to seeing baggy jeans on guys, but skin-tight jeans? Not so much. Tight jeans, baggy jeans — they’re all about freedom of expression.

But some cities are stripping this freedom from people. Some towns in Louisiana have banned people from wearing saggy jeans, and other cities throughout the U.S. are considering following suit. As The New York Times reports, these cities are claiming that baggy jeans pose a threat to the public because they encourage the exposure of one’s private parts in public. Sounds like an unfair claim considering most guys wear boxers that cover everything when they wear their pants down low.

The Times article says:

“Since June 11, sagging pants have been against the law in Delcambre, La., a town of 2,231 that is 80 miles southwest of Baton Rouge. The style carries a fine of as much as $500 or up to a six-month sentence. “We used to wear long hair, but I don’t think our trends were ever as bad as sagging,” said Mayor Carol Broussard.”

Who is to say saggy jeans are worse than long hair on guys or tight, white jeans? Louisiana’s ban on baggy jeans reeks of discrimination, considering “the wearers are young, predominantly African-American men” who are following a craze that became popular with hip-hop rappers in the ’90s. I’m curious to see if this saggy pants ban spreads. I hope 10 years from now, I’ll still see groups of boys crossing the street wearing skin tight jeans, accompanied by a group of saggy jean wearers.

Along the same lines, I wonder if people consider this video to be discriminatory…

What do you think?

‘So many books, so little time.’

I’m a multi-tasker, so when it comes to reading books, I can’t read just one. I’m always juggling a couple books at a time. Usually, I read while watching TV or eating dinner. When reading articles online, I’m almost always chatting with friends and checking e-mail in between paragraphs. As a child, I walked two miles to and from school (uphill both ways, in the snow), and always read a book. Somehow, I never walked into any telephone poles.

Sitting on my nightstand tonight are “Lucky” by Alice Sebold, “The Changing South of Gene Patterson,” edited by Roy Peter Clark and “100 Years of Solitude” by Gabriel Garcia Marquez. Every night I try to decide which one to read, but with three books going at once, it takes three times as long to finish any of them. Maybe I just need to stop going to Borders and the library, especially the Poynter library, which is filled with books about journalism.

I’m about to start “Atonement,” which I have to read half of by next week. My friend, her sister and I started a book club so that we would be forced to actually read an entire book within a reasonable amount of time. I’ve tried starting book clubs in the past but haven’t had much luck with them. This one seems to be working so far, though, probably because my friend and I are using our book discussions as a way of keeping in touch.

Below, I’ve listed some of the books I’ve been wanting to read. What books do you think I should add to the list?

The Looming Tower

The Memory Keeper’s Daughter

The History of Love

For One More Day

A Room of One’s Own

The Waves

The Historian

My Sister’s Keeper

East of Eden

White Noise

The House in Paris

The Folded Leaf

Lonesome Dove

The Best and the Brightest

The Member of the Wedding

The World According to Garp

Sickened

Meridian

Eat, Pray, Love

All Souls

The House of Mirth

A Long Way Gone

A Thousand Splendid Suns

Dreams From my Father (Barak Obama’s Memoir)

Water for Elephants

Marley and Me

The Namesake

The Glass Castle

The Life of Pi (Recommended by St. Pete Times writer Tom French)

The Pact

The Time Traveler’s Wife

Snow Flower and the Secret Fan

The Thirteenth Tale

The Other Boleyn Girl

October Sky

Atonement

The Joy Luck Club

Being Charlotte Simmons

Teacher Man

Mountains Beyond Mountains

Corrected links, Facebook discussion

Oops. I just realized most of the links in my last article didn’t work. I’ve fixed them, in case you want to look over the post again and click on some of the links like the link to my del.icio.us page.

Also, I just started a group on Poynter’s Journalists and Facebook group and am looking for some feedback. The group is meant to start a discussion about journalists and Twitter — a topic I’m writing about for a Poynter Online article that’s slated to run this week. I’d love to hear your thoughts, so feel free to share them and contribute to the discussion.

Here’s to a short post!

“D to the E, to the L-I-C-I-O-U-S”

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I’m now officially a “deliciouser,” a neologism I use to describe del.icio.us users. For years, I’ve saved articles in Word documents or e-mails, or kept them stored away in blue binders. My dad still cuts out articles about journalism, or news about my hometown, and mails them to me. Maybe I should introduce him to del.icio.us. A part of me still likes having a hard copy of stories that you can hold and snail-mail to others and always will, but del.icio.us is changing my view on how to best share and collect news.
At its most basic level, del.icio.us is a social bookmarking site, meaning you can aggregate all the articles/Web sites you find interesting onto one site. You can then share these articles with others and see what your family, friends, colleagues, etc. are “bookmarking” on their del.icio.us page. Other social bookmarking sites to check out are: Digg, Reddit, and Newsvine. Here is a detailed list of bookmarking sites compiled by Sharomatic. I never knew there were so many of these sites!

It wasn’t until Poynter’s summer fellowship for recent college graduates that I had even heard of “del.icio.us.” Maybe it’s some fan-club site for Fergy’s “Fergalicious,” I thought. “D to the E, to the L-I-C-I-O-U-S ..” Or maybe it’s a site that ranks the best “Top Chef” meals based on a “delicious scale.” Hey, who knows …

But then I started to realize that del.icio.us can be a valuable resource for journalists, or for anyone looking to share articles/interesting ideas with others. My colleague at Poynter wrote a two-part series on journalists and social bookmarking, which helps explain what del.icio.us is all about. Here is a fun snippet from her article: “You may be wondering why the URL for this site is del.icio.us and not delicious.com. It is an example of something called a domain hack, a crafty tool used by programmers to create a succinct word play on the intended URL. (Both delicious.com and delicio.us redirect you to the del.icio.us page). In this sort of address, “del.” takes the place of the usual “www.” and “.us” takes the place of “.com.” Between those combinations of letters, “icio” was an obvious choice.”

Check out my del.icio.us page. What articles/Web sites have grabbed your attention lately? Let me know, and I’ll add them to my list. Feel free to share your social bookmarking pages with other Word on the Street readers …

Just Your Average Neighborhood Beat

I promised you in my last post that I’d explain how my passion for journalism started, so here goes:

I’ve always wanted to tell stories. As a child, most of my friends played hide-and-go-seek. I read Harriet the Spy. Inspired by Harriet, I would walk around the neighborhood with my Lisa Frank notebook and ask my neighbors if they had any news to share. As an 11-year-old, this was my idea of spying. Intrigued by my inquisitiveness (and the binoculars I wore around my neck) my 74-year-old neighbor, Mrs. Irish, would update me on her children’s lives. Mr. and Mrs. Graham always filled me in on how many cars had sped down the street. Mr. Moore updated me on Esmerelda, the stray cat that often brought mice to his doorstep. Though not exactly breaking news, their stories gave me the opportunity to do what I loved: write and report. My neighborhood was my beat, the place where I searched for people and ideas, the place where I realized how many stories are left untold.

Now, 15 years later, I’m still a little write-a-holic, but my beat is St. Pete. Actually, my beat while writing for Poynter Online is more so the journalism industry. Sounds like a big “beat,” but basically I’m writing/editing articles meant to serve as resources for journalists. I prefer to say that I now “investigate” stories and “people watch” rather than “spy” like Harriet, but really, it all comes down to being curious and desiring to reveal what’s true.

How did you get started in journalism or whatever profession you’re in? C’mon, I know you must have some stories to share. Enlighten us.

Childhood memories stir laughter, teach lessons

I love how children are so carefree and innocent. Reporters can learn a lot from children, particularly because they are always asking questions in search of answers to the “why” questions in life. When I’m stumped for a story idea, I try to put myself in the shoes of a child, not to become innocent, but to help myself become more inquisitive. When doing so, I think about my favorite childhood pastimes. Oddly enough, many of them can be related to reporting.

1.) Selling lemonade. I used to have extravagant lemonade stands as a child, which would involve me jumping on a pogo stick in the middle of the road and waving around pool noodles to attract customers. Along with selling Paul Newman’s lemonade, I would sell handmade bookmarks and what I called Refwingems — little plastic disks that I’d cover in glitter glue. I would attach embroidery floss to the disks so that they could be hung. I can’t recall why I called them this, but the name stuck. When I told my friends in college about selling them, they all got a kick out of the story. Sophomore year, we ended up naming our room “Room Refwingem.” I also sold bookmarks, which I made out of old cards, and eyeglass pins. My grandma used to bring me boxes of eyeglass lenses that her optometrist would have otherwise thrown out. I used to cut up cards, wrapping paper, etc., and glue them to the lenses. I’d put cardboard and felt on the back of the paper and glue a pin-back on them, then I’d pray they didn’t fall apart when customers stopped to look at them …

Reporting lesson: Just like I didn’t just sell lemonade, reporters can’t just write a story. They have to put themselves out there — even if that means jumping in the middle of the road on a pogo stick while waving pool noodles — to get the information they need. And, reporters have to be creative. Stories are so much better when they have added components such as multimedia — the bookmarks and Refwingems of a story.

2.) Skateboarding. My neighbor Shannon and I used to skateboard down our neighbor Joyce’s long driveway across the street. I would stand in the middle of the road and direct traffic so that Shannon could safely ride down the driveway. One time, there was a three-mile car backup …

Reporting lesson: Stop traffic with your articles. Make them shine.

3.) Feeding the ducks. There used to be a pond in my backyard, which was home to dozens of mallard ducks. I used to say “QUACK, QUACK,” as loudly as I could, trying my hardest to imitate a real duck’s quack, and the ducks would fly to my backyard right away. I used to pray that my parents would let the bread in our house grow stale so we could feed it to the ducks. When they weren’t looking, I’d grab a few slices of bread or some Ritz crackers and feed them to my furry friends. For some reason, I named my favorite mallard “Robert.” He had bright green feathers and a brown spot over his eye. Sometimes, the ducks followed me all the way up the hill to my house. I’d literally have to make a mad dash into my back porch and shut the door quickly behind me so they wouldn’t come inside! My first “published” book was about feeding the ducks. My second-grade teacher, Mrs. Keefe, bound it for me, along with some other stories I wrote that year.

Reporting lesson: Turn fun experiences/pastimes into story ideas; think about how they could be affecting children/families in the here and now.

4.) Baton twirling. I twirled competitively for about five years and would always practice in my front lawn. My favorite song to twirl to was Katrina and the Waves’ “Walking on Sunshine.” I would bring out my oh-so-classy boom-box with stickers on it, turn it up loudly, and start twirling in my front yard. I also loved to twirl my Devil Sticks. Sometimes I’d wear my leotards, which were supposed to be reserved for competitions only. Oops. When people walked by, I’d entertain them by doing a “tripple,” meaning I’d throw up the baton, spin around three times, and try to catch it. One time when doing a tripple, the baton landed right on my right front tooth. I can still remember seeing bits of my tooth fly out of my mouth. Thank goodness for dentists.

Reporting lesson: Stories should entertain readers, even if they are just run-of-the-mill city council meeting recaps. To make them seem more exciting, try to think of a theme song to go along with them, i.e. “Walking on Sunshine” is the theme song of my baton twirling story.

5.) Playing the clarinet. I used to bring my grandma’s 1930s music stand that she used when playing the accordion and my lime green vanity chair outside and plop myself in the middle of my front yard. I was in the marching band fourth through seventh grade, which means I had to practice outside of school. I always thought, “Who wants to practice the clarinet, or drums, or saxophone inside when you could play outside for an audience?” I like to joke that once I started playing, my neighbors would nonchalantly start closing their doors and windows…

Reporting lesson: Don’t let closed doors stop you. Keep interviewing, keep writing, keep playing the reporting game.

6.) Imaginary games. I used to play a game called “Sissy Little Rich Girls,” which would involve me pretending I was a rich girl who drove around in a limo with a swimming pool attached to it. Sometimes I’d dress up in dresses with frilly lace and talk in a British accent while playing this game. What was I thinking?? There was a time when I was obsessed with medieval times. After going to King Richard’s Faire with a friend from middle school, I became well-versed in my medieval lingo and would create games that involved princesses, knights and squires. I also used to play imaginary games based off of the books “Bridge to Terabithia” and “The Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobe.”

Reporting lesson: If you’re bored with a story or can’t think of how to start your lede, think of your favorite books for inspiration. What do you love about these books? How can you incorporate what you love into the story you’re writing?

7.) Harriet the Spy. When I was younger, I always pretended I was a spy. In my next post, I’ll explain how spying launched me into my career in journalism.

Do you have any fun memories that give you inspiration for stories? What are some of your favorite childhood pastimes?